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Tuesday, December 17, 2013

A New Beginning

A New Beginning

Just when I found it unberable to fight
The flow of the saltly water made me feel light
Washed away all my frustration
Wiped out the feeling of humiliation
Erased one by one, all the confusion
Prepared to embrance devil and angel with arms open
The priceless emotion, rolling down
From the most sensible organ
It is called the tear
For me it is very near and dear
Which helps blow the heavier feelings into thin air
It is the new dawn today
Forgotten are the developments of the night yesterday
I am a bit excited at this point in time
Today I have a new task, a new level to climb
A new hope emerged beneath the core of my heart
It is the new beginning, yes! I am ready to restart
Restart the things I have experienced
Learning from the mistakes I have made
And to start a new day with bright twinkling light
Being able to see things differently
And it's the tear that wiped away all the vagueness
Making me clear on how to begin.

Friday, December 13, 2013

Words of Encouragement

Words of Encouragement

When things go wrong as they sometimes will, we all need words of encouragement. To spring back again to complete our fight and move on towards the path of our life. And here are some words of encouragement you never know how can they affect your life.

  • “When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.” — Henry Ford

  • “One has to remember that every failure can be a stepping stone to something better.” — Col Harland Sanders

  • “When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the place and time that the tide will turn.” — Harriet Beecher Stowe

  • “A diamond is merely a lump of coal that did well under pressure.” — Unknown

  • “I am grateful for all of my problems. After each one was overcome, I became stronger and more able to meet those that were still to come. I grew in all my difficulties.” — James Cash Penney

  • “A bend in the road is not the end of the road... unless you fail to make the turn.” — Unknown

  • “Use what talent you possess: the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except those that sang best.” — Henry Van Dyke

  • “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do that by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbour, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” — Mark Twain

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Are We Being ‘Stupid’ Too?

Are We Being ‘Stupid’ Too?

A butcher watching over his shop is really surprised when he sees a dog coming inside the shop. He shoos him away. But later, the dog is back again. So, he goes over to the dog and notices he has a note in his mouth. He takes the note and it reads, “Can I have 12 sausages and a leg of lamb, please. The dog has money in his mouth, as well.”

The butcher looks inside and, Io and behold, there is a $10 note there. So he takes the money and puts the sausages and lamb in a bag, placing it in the dog’s mouth. The butcher is so impressed, and since it’s about closing time, he decides to shut up shop and follow the dog.

So off he goes. The dog is walking down the street when he comes to a crossing. The dog puts down the bag, jumps up and presses the button. Then he waits bag in mouth, for the lights to turn. They do, and he walks across the road, with the butcher following him. The dog then comes to a bus stop, and starts looking at the timetable.

The butcher is in awe at this stage. The dog checks out the times, and then sits on one of the seats provided. Along comes a bus. The dog walks around to the front, looks at the number, and goes back to his seat.

Another bus comes. Again the dog goes and looks at the number, notices it’s the right bus, and climbs on. The butcher follows him onto the bus.

The bus travels through the town and out into the suburbs. Eventually the dog gets up, and moves to the front of the bus. He stands on two back paws and pushes the button to stop the bus. Then he gets off, his groceries still in his mouth.

Well, dog and butcher are walking along the road, and then the dog turns into a house. He walks up the path, and drops the groceries on the step.

Then he walks back down the path, takes a big run, and throws himself against the door. He goes back down the path, runs up to the door and again, it throws himself against it. There’s no answer at the house, so the dog goes back down the path, jumps up on a narrow wall, and walks along the perimeter of the garden. He gets to the window, and beats his head against it several times, walks back, jumps off, and waits at the door.

The butcher watches as a big man opens the door, and starts abusing the dog, kicking him and punching him, and swearing at him. The butcher runs up, and stops the man.

“What in heaven’s name are you doing? The dog is a genius. He could be on TV, for the life of me!” to which the man responds, “You call this clever? This is the second time this week that this stupid dog has forgotten his key.”

Reflection: Looks like some people will never be satisfied with what they’ve got. When it comes to the workplace, employers do not kow to appreciate people who have served them loyally through the years. I’ve seen companies lose good people for the simple fact their leaders failed to show appreciation.

Employers with big egos enjoy the fact that they have more power and authority than others. They show, in the way they give orders and directions, that they think they are superior. They get a kick out of displaying this superiority. People who do this are fools. They are never satisfied because they could not be saisfied even if their people perform well. They don’t listen to the opinion and ideas of their subordinates. Why? Because of their stupid pride and insecurity!

Such will never be satisfied. Why? Because they are so busy wrapped up in themselves and, fact is, the self can never be satisfied. Happy and productive people are always those who are “others-centered” rather than “self-centered.” The greatest idea of leadership is not someone who throws his weight around. His joy is derived from delivering a job others benefit from his contribution. Aim for service and success will follow.

Monday, December 9, 2013

How to Break Bad News to Your Team

How to Break Bad News to Your Team

Delivering news about organisational change and redundancies is never easy. But how the process is managed can have a long-lasting impact on individuals and the organisation as a whole.

So, if you have got to break the news to the staff, it is vital you communicate well. Here are some tips on how best to talk to your team, sustain performance and keep staff motivated.

1. Develop a clear communication strategy: Have a clear and consistent message based on the business rationale for change. In a difficult situation, you might feel under pressure to move away from the corporate line to sound less formal, but it is crucial to stick to the leadership message.

2. Keep it simple: People need clarity and understanding about what the current situation is, how it affects them and what the next steps are. Be concise and stick to the facts.

3. Prepare and practice: If you are giving a speech to your staff, prepare a script and practice delivering it. Take time to become confident and comfortable with the words.

4. Listen: Delivering bad news can be stressful. When they are trying to stay in control, people often speak too much and do not listen enough. This is usually due to nerves, so practicing what you want to say can really help here.

5. Timing is critical: Let the people who are being made redundant know before the rest of the world. Make sure your internal and external communications are joined up.

6. Be compassionate: Some people think they cannot be compassionate because they have to remain professional. But telling somebody that they are about to lose their job always demands compassion. — The Guardian

Saturday, December 7, 2013

What Your Sugar Rush Says About You

What Your Sugar Rush Says About You

Nothing compares to the rush you get from a bunch of sugar! The sugar rush may not last long, but is there any yummier way to get some energy? Pick the sugar rush you like the best, and see what it says about you.

Ice-cream

You are inventive, creative, and completely ingenious. You are extremely gifted. You're not just a thinker, you're also a doer. You can put almost any idea into action. You are intensely curious and always exploring. You are understanding and perceptive. You get where others are comping from, even if you don't agree.

Milky/chocolate bar

You enjoy the path not taken. You are a natural strategist. You always like to formulate a plan of attack. You are brainy and you love difficult intellectual challenges. You don't shy away from difficulty. You are original and independent. You're making your own trends and carving your own path.

Jelly gummy bears

You see things how they are, and luckily, things are pretty great. You are an optimistic realist. You are honest, even if it costs you a friend. You want to live an authentic life. You are a good humoured and straightforward person. You can laugh at any situation, and you love to laugh at yourself. You're very blunt and honest, even if it means risking someone's feelings. You prefer to be straight with people.

Dark chocolate bar

You provide direction and leadership for others. People are looking to you to see what you'll do. You focus on goals rather than people. You've always been happiest looking out for yourself. You welcome new challenges without fear. You're ready for whatever comes your way. You are a very ambitious person.

Candy cane

You pride yourself on being easy to read. You think it's best to take the honest approach. You love to win for everyone, and your favourite successes are the ones you can share with your friends. You are a people's person. You are a total extrovert, and others energise you. You appreciate organisation and thrive under structure. You like to understand exactly what's going on.

Choco bar

You believe things need to change in this world. And you've got the guts to make those changes happen. You function well with heavy workloads. You like being and staying productive. You are an extreme risk taker. You love the rush that taking a gamble gives you. You do things your way, and you always get results. You'll work as hard and long as it takes.

Friday, December 6, 2013

Be Gentle

Be Gentle

Pray, don’t find fault with the man that limps or stumbles along the road.
Unless you have worn the shoes he wears or struggled beneath his load
There may be tracks in his shoes that hurt through hidden away from view.
Or the burden he bears placed on your back might cause you to stumble too.

Don’t sneer at the man who’s down today unless you have felt the blow.
That caused his fall or felt the shame that only the fallen know.
You may be strong but still the blows that was his if dealt to you.
In the selfsame way, at the selfsame time might cause you to stagger too.

Don’t be too harsh with the man that sins or pelt him with word or stone.
Unless you are sure — yea, doubly sure — that you have no sins of your own.
For you know if the temper’s voice should whisper as soft to you.
As it did to him when he went astray it might cause you to falter too.

Monday, December 2, 2013

7 Tips for Becoming an Entrepreneur in College

7 Tips for Becoming an Entrepreneur in College

Looking to start your own business? Have a dream or vision you want to pursue? Do not wait until after graduation to put your plans in motion. These tips will help guide you on your way to becoming a student entrepreneur.

1. Find something you are passionate about

Sit down for 20 minutes and brainstrom a list of everything you like to do. It can be silly, ridiculous and only half-interesting, but work on developing a comprehensive list of anything that brings you joy or happiness. Consolidate your list into a top few passions and figure out if there is anything you would want to pursue full time.

2. Brainstorm ideas for your start-up

Think about how you can incorporate your interests. Most innovative companies and successful start-ups differentiate themselves from the market with a special niche-combining interests is a great way to create specialisation. Make sure your idea is not too narrow, though. Then, consider the market. Is there room for your business? How are current companies within the same industry structured? How can you stand out?

3. Look for funding

Look into community-oriented sites, which allows visionaries to crowd fund money for their project or idea. One drawback is that for this particular site, it’s an all-or-nothing contribution — you either meet your funding goal entirely or lose out on the money people have pledged. But there are other sites that offer other options, of course.

Explore a local angel investor network. Most universities have connections to these types of resources and information can most likely be found on a university’s office of corporate relations site.

4. Check out university incubators

Often hosted through the university’s business school, student business incubators have many advantages. First, they offer free or cheap space to launch a business idea. Second, they usually have business experts available to work with you to develop a business plan. Third, it fosters a collaborative environment and allows you to work with other student entrepreneurs, often on your own campus.

5. Utilise local mentorship organisations

Many college towns have established professional start-up communities that house mentorship programs. These organisations exist simply to pair emerging entrepreneurs with recognised and respected mentors. This is a key step in ensuring longevity for your busienss that many student entrepreneurs overlook. Having a mentor is essential to a successful business launch and often can be the start of a lifelong friendship.

6. Promote your company

Be active on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, Google+, Pinterest and other social networking sites. Do not forget to start your own website, too. WordPress is a popular, inexpensive choice. Decide how you are going to advertise your company and put together a solid marketing plan. An overarching public relations strategy should include your marketing plan and your social media strategy. Also consider blogging, press releases and other media outreach to promote your brand and business.

7. Stay informed about the start-up community

Make sure you are reading industry news. Bookmark sites such as Entrepreneur Inc, Business Insider, TechCrunch and Technori. If you want your business to keep growing, make sure your mind is too. Challenge yourself to keep learning and consider taking a free courses.

Lastly, do not forget to keep networking. Attending business events to socialise and spread your message. Also, through industry conferences, local meet-ups and start-up groups, you can stay inspired to keep creating and dreaming, which, after all, is the core of a thriving start-up. — USA Today